Childhood Socialization
Friday, January 4, 2013
This will be my final update on my research and surveys everyone!! I am very excited to present my whole findings in my presentation soon... I have to say I am surprised at the results I received. Some parents gave vague answers to interpret which was difficult but some gave very detailed information----which I loved! Most parents said that their children were behaved or most behaved at the highest. It came to my mind that maybe these parents weren't being completely honest, however, I will never know that answer! I would think that most parents would consider their children behaved unless they really were a handful.. no child is a perfect little angel. What I did notice is that females have the dominance in families. About 50% of surveys have more than one female and no males as children. So maybe that is why I got the results I got? Females are known to be better behaved and less violent (the stereotypical view). Most families have an Xbox or PlayStation in their household which is definitely not surprising since electronics are in high demand in this century. Children and the media are always a concern for the future of the children--it determines what they will become and learn with what they are exposed to. The media has changed over the years and will continue to change. Once we are aware of this change it is our job to do something about it. There are so many hidden messages that children aren't even aware of yet which leads them to ask their parents questions.. but, why do parents have to explain? Why can't they just wait until they are mature enough to be exposed to such media. This is just a little preview of all of my results though..I have gotten a ton of more information which I cannot wait to share with everyone! I have learned so much about childhood socialization while doing this project and I will continue to do more, since it is something I am very interested in.
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
UPDATE- UPDATE!!
So, I have handed
out all 10 of my surveys to the daycare center and am waiting to get them back
as soon as I can. I already have gotten a sneak peak of one of the results I am
going to receive. I had asked my boss if I could ask her a general thought about
this survey. As soon as I told my boss more about the survey and as she heard
about some of the questions, she immediately admitted to believing the media
affects children in a negative way. She LOVED the topic, and I know you guys do
too.. The results will be very interesting! She has an 8 year old girl and a 10
year old boy. My boss told me off the bat that she thinks that her son plays
way too many video games and she sees a difference in behavior because of them.
However, once I get the surveys back I will find the real catch with media
affecting children. TV is the main thrill I am waiting for… you will hear about
parent's top 3 shows they like for their children and what they consider
inappropriate media on TV! Don't you want to know what other parents think? I
know I do! The few other surveys to my neighbors with older children will be
back shortly as well. I have added pictures of the survey below, tell me what you think :)
Friday, November 30, 2012
Hey everyone! Okay, so this survey is looking out to
be a success so far.. I have not administrated it to anyone YET but I have
written about 15 questions that will potentially give me some really
interesting results among parents of children with all ages. I have printed out
surveys and made a list of who I am going to give it to. I will be talking more
to my boss about the survey today actually. These questions are thoughtful and personal
but they are general questions that would be valid and the parents should not
have trouble answering. I will continue to update you on when I administer the
survey and what the results are. I will attach the survey soon so you can see
and maybe you would like to take it! The questions will interest you and make
you really think how television and the media have changed over the years. From
when I was young, it has definitely changed. Look at Disney channel, for
example. The shows are completely different now. It will bring you to MORE
attention to the fact that the media is corrupting children IF the children
watch these sorts of shows. The messages could be subtle to being completely
outright. What do you think?
Monday, November 19, 2012
Heeeeeey fellow bloggers! I'm getting really excited about this survey I am going to administer. I plan to hand out surveys to the parents of kids I
work with at the daycare center. These parents have children from 3-10 years
old, male and female. I will also be surveying a few neighbors with older kids
so that I can compare the two results. I will find out information about girls
and boys behaviors from their parents. I hope to at least get 10 parents from
the daycare center and 5 neighbors. I will let you know how many I am recording
once I get surveys back (since not all will participate). My predictions will be that the parents with
older kids will be more aware of how the television has affected their children
(who are now older). The parents of younger kids might not be so aware because
they haven’t seen the change YET…… Here are a few of the questions I am
planning to ask:
1. How
many children do you have?
2. How
old are your children?
3. Are
your children male/female?
4. When
you think about all the issues you face as a parent, would you say that
inappropriate content in the media is one of your TOP concerns, a big concern
but not one of your top concerns, not a big concern, or not a concern at all?
5. Do
you monitor what your children watches?
6. Do
you have any CONSOLE video game players like X-box or Playstation in your
household?
Friday, November 9, 2012
Hello bloggers! I am very excited to share some of my new
ideas with you. I have chosen to research childhood socialization with a
survey. I am going to survey parents on how the media has changed over the
years and affected their children. Such media will include television shows,
advertisements, and the overall “image” and norms their children have been
exposed to. I will be handing out surveys to parents in the day care center. I will
also go to neighbors and friends and hand the same survey out to them. I think
that it would be very beneficial to survey parents with younger kids but also
younger kids. I want to see how the result of a parent with younger kids
differs from a parent with older kids. Their kids have been exposed to
different years of changed television and what the messages are telling us. I
definitely grew up with different television compared to the young toddlers
now. I honestly think that the television now is portraying a different message
to kids. Let’s see what we find… !
Friday, October 26, 2012
Hello fellow
bloggers! I am very anxious to share with you, my experience with the “new
room” at the daycare center. I walked into work ready with enthusiasm and hope because
I was the first person to work in the new room. There are five kids that were
placed in this room. I wasn’t really sure to expect because I didn’t know one
of the new children coming in, Nate, that has diabetes and other behavioral
problems. It is a whole different atmosphere in that room. I kind of felt bad
that they were in there though because it was a fast transition in that room.
There are many new toys in there which attracted them. They immediately started
playing nicely. It was such a surprise! One of the kids, Justin, kept asking
why they were in this room now. I didn’t really know what to say, so I paused
for a moment. This kid is always a trouble maker so I was waiting to see his
response. He actually was adapting nicely to this room because he wasn’t
getting influenced by other bad behaviors around him. The atmosphere is more
calm and organized unlike how it is upstairs with so many kids to watch. When
he asked why they were in there I simply told him that they were in there
because we were playing in here and we were going upstairs soon. The new kid,
Nate, was acting normal around the kids which caused them to act normally. I
feel like he is going to like the daycare and make friends easily since he
already got along with them. I just hope he doesn’t have an outburst of
behavior. He seemed like a nice kid but I feel if he doesn’t get his way he
will not behave. This could be a reaction because he wasn’t properly taken care
of by his real parents. Now that he was recently adopted I feel like his new
mother can foster and give him the care he needs to behave well. She can
transform him into being a wonderful kid if she socializes him well throughout
the rest of his upbringing with the way she treats him, the things she
introduces him to, and how she handles bad situations.
Something that
caught my eye was when the others kids that saw the kids in this room were
confused. They all asked a lot of questions like, “Why are they in this room
away from everyone else? I just gave them the same response I gave to Justin.
They then were reacting with a little laugh… so they knew something was going
on with segregation. I think we need to make a point to the kids that they
aren’t in here because they did something wrong. I don’t want these kids to get
made fun of because we all know that kids can be mean and start teasing. Teasing
can lead to confused role of identity which could lead to later problems in
life when they emerge into adulthood. What kind of affect do you think this new
room will have on these children? Would you do anything different in this
scenario?
If you would
like to ask me anything, don’t hesitate to comment! :)
Thursday, October 18, 2012
Parents always are key influencers to child behavior and
development. There
are certain circumstances when the child is not at fault because of a parent
who is not a "good" caretaker which leads to putting the child in a foster home,
etc. There are other circumstances when it is the child’s fault because they
want to get their way OR simply they just do not like to listen and there is no
punishment for it.
On Monday, my boss had asked to talk to me about an idea she
had. There is an extra room that is not being used at the daycare because the
age group outgrew that room. She had a solution to put the kids in this room.
This was a request from a desperate parent because her child has diabetes,
ADHD, and some other behavioral problems. The others she was thinking to put in
that room are kids who are not as well behaved, etc. What do you think caused
these behavioral problems? She will also put a few of the kids in there who get
along with those certain people. She thinks that this would be a good idea for
them to matriculate and give them more attention since where they are now is a
bit hectic. I think that this would be a good idea for the kids to have their
own time and more attention from the teacher instead of being with the thirty
kids upstairs. Every child is different and has their reasons. For example, the
child that has diabetes and ADHD needs more attention. With having ADHD and
other problems associated, I found out that he is actually being adopted right
now. This breaks my heart because it is so sad to hear that this boy is like
this because of his previous family. I do not know the circumstances but as you
can see, family influences behavior. What do you think about this idea? Do you
think that these children should not be “segregated” from everyone else or is
it a good idea for them to get the attention they need? I feel like these kids
will play better and behave better. It could be in the environment they are in
upstairs because they need the attention, so they cry. I also think that a
child upstairs could be influencing them in a negative way because they do not
get along. If these kids are placed with the right people, I think that their
behavior can change.
We see that today, our behavior is depicted on what types of
people we hang out with. Our behavior is reflected on the friends we pick, and
what our friends do. If our friend does something we might not necessarily do,
it could be okay if we did it too,
right? The people we spend time with shape our lives in how we behave and make
us who we are.
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